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4 Things to Make You a Gentleman

Manners are disappearing in our world today. Children learn early to say please and thank you and that is where it seems to end. As we get older our manners seem to get worse and worse.

My dad always said to treat a woman the way you would want your mother treated. Hopefully this is a message that can resonate with you as well.

Men, here are 4 things that will help you be a stand out and make women believe that there are still gentlemen out there. Don’t worry you don’t need to dress like an old school gentleman to show the traits of one.

Ladies, don’t hesitate to share this with the men in your life.

1)The first is one you know, hold doors open.

With the invention of self opening doors at many stores men have gotten lazy with opening doors. Hold a door open for a lady. Open the door to the car, into a store and into anywhere with a door. This is a quick way to remind a woman that you see her as a lady.
clarification: If the door in question is a revolving door, men should go through first so that they can be the ones to get the door spinning with a push.

2)The second one is one that most men don’t even think about. Walk on the outside of your lady.

Whenever you are walking down the street make sure that you are on the side of her that the traffic is also on. This will keep her safe from anything flying up from the road in her direction.
clarification: When walking through a mall, be on the side of her that is not between her and the store. This will allow her the ability to window shop and keep you between her and the sales people at the cart offering just a quick free demonstration she wants to avoid.

3)The third one is one that might not be a part of your regular life. Make sure you have backseat courtesy.

We are not talking about staying on your side of the car, of course we know you already know that one. We are speaking about any time that you are taking a cab or riding with friends and you end up in the backseat. Never have her slide across the seat. As a gentleman you should either put her in the car and go around to the other side, or to be safe with a cab in a busy city, you should get in first and slide all the way over to make things easier on her. Plus have you ever had to slide across a seat in a dress or a skirt, it isn’t easy we have been told.

4)The fourth thing will put you a step ahead.

When on an escalator with a woman make sure you are ready to prevent her fall. That means that if you are going up the escalator you allow the lady to go before you. If you are heading down on an escalator make sure that you are the first to head down. Whether you are heading up or heading down, make sure you to stay the right to allow others to pass.
Of course none of this will matter if you forget the first lesson on manners you were ever taught. Always say please and thank you.

Chadalyst – Men, hold a door open for a lady today. Ladies, forward this to your men!

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