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Who are your 5 people?

Author, motivational speaker and entrepreneur Jim Rohn is known for many great sayings such as:

Never wish life were easier, wish that you were better.

You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.

Affirmation without discipline is the beginning of delusion.

And then there was this one:

You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with.

Now for the big question, who are those people?

My dad was either a big fan of Jim Rohn or he understood this lesson at a high level from somewhere in life. Because when I was in grade 10 I spent my time with a specific group of friends. My grades suffered and I almost had the opportunity to repeat some of my classes that year. My dad stepped up and gave me two options. Option one, be grounded for the rest of my high school life and never have a social life. Option two, find new friends!

The friends that I spent time with during grade 10 I am sure are all great people now. At the time they didn’t show the drive that my dad knew was within me and instead of pushing myself, I held back to stay with my friends. Had I remained with this group, who knows who I am today!

Instead of being locked in the house for the next few years, as you can guess I took the second option and I developed other friendships and surrounded myself with a group of guys that had drive, determination and goals in their future. Now one is an author, one an actor, one a lawyer, one a leader in his organization and one a leader in tourism for a major city. All of these friends are like brothers to me and even now, 30 years later we are still just as close.

What did my dad know? He knew that surrounding me with others that were growing, learning and challenging each other would help me to grow, to learn and to take on challenges. At the time I am sure I argued and kicked and screamed about the change. Now all I can say is thank you dad!

Let’s get back to the question that I asked you before sharing part of my story. Who are those 5 people for you?
Write the names of the 5 people (adult children count, otherwise don’t count your young kids still at home) that you spend the most time with.
Then create a column and rate them on a 1-10 scale of, 1) how fun they are 2) their business success 3) their health.
Average up the score for each category, fun, success and health and I bet you find rating of you.

We become the people we spend time with.

Choose your friends wisely!

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Let me introduce you to you

After spending a week at Keller Williams Family Reunion this past week there were many AHA’s that were being shared. One of them kept being repeated and stood out to me was that you are only 5 years from being whomever you want to be. What great news!

Let me share with you what that can look like as we go back in time together and I share my story. Let’s go back 6 years. I know I said 5 years, let’s look at the 5 year gap from 2011-2016 to see what can be done.

I share with you my story as an example and then at the end I will share with you the simple steps you can follow to create your own transformation.

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In 2011 I am not married and in 2016 I have a strong marriage with my amazing wife Nita that is built on trust and honesty. By using strategies of Darren Hardy, I have created a gratitude journal for my wife and shared it with her. It now always has me looking for the things that I am grateful for about her and it has her doing the same. This keeps us growing and strengthening our marriage.

In 2011 I am up to my eyeballs in debt due to irresponsible management of my money and credit and in 2016 I am proud to say I am debt free, except for my home. How does this happen? Following the path put before us by Dave Ramsey for Financial Peace in our lives.

In 2011 I think that I am in shape and in 2016 I am in the best shape of my life. By finding a gym that works for me and a trainer that pushes me and a nutritionist that guides me healthy becomes a way of life.

In 2011 I call Bellingham Washington home and by 2016 I call Atlanta Georgia home.  With growth comes opportunity and with opportunity comes change.

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Now that we are back in the present it is time for you to set your vision for who you will be in 2022. It might sound far away, although it is only 5 years away and will be here before you know it!

How to do it? First thing is the hardest thing as you want to do is decide who you want to be when you get there. If you don’t have a vision you will look up and be the same you 5 years from now, or you might have gone backwards. Sit down and dream big! Do you want your health to look a certain way? How about where you are living? What does business look like for you? Who are you in relationships with?

Second step is what is called Goal Setting to the Now from The ONE Thing and take your written vision of 5 years from now backwards. If you know who you want to be in 5 years, who do you need to be in 3 years to be on track? Who you then need to be in 1 year to be on track? Who will you need to be in 6 months then? How about 1 month? How about at the end of this week? How about as soon as you finish reading this?

Walk the goal backwards and it becomes easier to see the finish line.

Now it is up to you to get started and I can’t wait to meet the 2022 version of you!

PS Did you notice along the way of my path, there was a mentor, a trainer, a coach to show me the path? Find yours today!

 

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Compete or Complete?

It is amazing how powerful a single letter of our alphabet can be. The letter E changes the sound of so many other letters. The letter S can turn one into many. And the letter L can make a huge difference in your results.

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Let’s look closer at this. Years ago many people used to make the sign of the letter L on their head to make fun of others and represent the term loser.

Today it is that same letter L that could be the thing that is keeping you in a cycle of losing and preventing you from becoming the winner that you know you are!

Most people go through the day just to complete everything that they need to do. Check, check and check. People love to check their to-do lists and feel as though they got enough done to call it a day. There are people who even put ‘create to-do list’ on their to-do list, just to complete one task immediately.

Then there are the people out there that compete to bring out the best in themselves. Competition is a powerful tool and does not have to lead to someone being a sore winner. These people might compete with others just as quickly as they might compete with a target that is set. Best of all they might just compete with themselves and grow each and every opportunity they get.

Which one are you? Someone that looks to compete or someone with that letter L that is happy when they just complete a task?

Don’t let a single letter define you.

 

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Once again Keller Williams Family Reunion is almost here and that means it is time to plan how to make the most of the 70 hours of the event.

 

Hopefully you learned your lesson about the tickets and either joined MAPS to get a ticket with your coaching or you were one that bought yours right away!

If you didn’t get a ticket, keep reading! There will be tips and tricks that work for you without leaving home.

Tip #1 – If you did not get a ticket make sure you are paying attention on Facebook and make sure everyone you know from leadership to fellow agents know you are looking. Many people will have to transfer their ticket. I know many that were stuck with tickets last year. Book your flight; there WILL be a ticket for you!

 

My name is Chad Hyams, and I have attended many Keller Williams Family Reunion events over many years and I have been able to attend in many roles:

  • Agent
  • Team Leader
  • Vendor
  • General Manager
  • MAPS Coach
  • Growth and Productivity Director for the Southeast Region
  • Trainer
  • Breakout Session Leader

This means that I have been there and done that and still I attend this event every year without fail. There is always something to learn and always someone to meet. Read on to learn how I feel you can make the most of your trip.

 

Family Reunion Survival Guide!

The ticket system changed for KWFR due to the high demand and it will not get easier to get tickets in the future. Become a client of MAPS or be quick to click when tickets go on sale. If you didn’t get one, book your flight and hotel, as tickets will become available.

Couldn’t find a hotel room? Then you weren’t looking hard enough. This is Las Vegas and there are LOTS of hotel rooms. Check other hotels and plan to get your exercise in as you walk a little extra. Don’t like that idea, then check into vacation rentals and find a condo not too far away to share with others.

Don’t like the flights for one reason or another? Start to plan the drive to Vegas! What’s the fastest way to get there, who can you share the cost of the drive with and the actually driving with? Make it a traveling mastermind that everyone wishes they could be a part of.

Before you get near the airplane for your trip to Vegas (or in your car if you live close enough) visit FamilyReunion.KW.com and check out the breakout schedules as they are now posted. Take the time in advance to figure out the 2 sessions you want to attend in each time block. Having 2 sessions selected will take some of the stress when you can’t get into a session and don’t know where to head off to. Now you will be ready!

One of the questions that everyone wants to know is “how do I choose the best breakout sessions in advance from a 2 line description?” My answer is always the same, what is the ONE Thing that you wish to learn more about while at the event? Find ALL of the breakout sessions on that topic.  If that doesn’t help you decide, then select the instructors that you have always learned from and go listen to them. If you still cannot choose find a friend that is going to be at the event and ask which breakout session they will be in and go to a DIFFERENT one. Share notes later!

Tip #2 – To make the most of Keller Williams Family Reunion figure out your ONE Thing in advance. Turn your ONE Thing into a question and ask at least 100 different people at the event your question. You will end up asking newer agents with a fresh perspective, experienced agents, Team Leaders, coaches, instructors and who knows you could find yourself asking the president of the company, so be prepared. 

 

  • Maybe you want to know how to follow up in a better way
  • Maybe you want to know how to hire better members to your team
  • Maybe you want to learn how to get more listings
  • Maybe you just want to learn the biggest mistake others have made to learn from

Whatever it is, figure out your ONE question and ask AT LEAST 100 people! Here’s what will happen…you will get 100 different answers that when you look at later you will realize are really only 3 or 4 different answers. This will help you narrow your focus and actually apply something instead of becoming overwhelmed with amazing ideas.

 

Now that we have that part covered let’s jump into what to expect from a Keller Williams Family Reunion event.

 

Make The Most Of Your Time at Family Reunion
(because there isn’t a lot of it!)

Chaos is a must at an event this size. There will be people running left and right around the very large Mandalay Bay hotel and convention center and even some just standing still. If you are prepared, this will not be you! This event for you should be CONTROLLED CHAOS

Remember that you are NOT on vacation and this is not a chance to finally be sleeping in! This year we see the 7:30am breakout session making a return so get up and get going! If you are an early bird and you can make it happen, start each day with a breakfast appointment. You have to eat and they have to eat. Eat with someone and develop a business referral relationship, get some great coaching or just share AHA’s from the day before. Not sure about getting a breakfast meeting, then bring workout clothes because you never know whom you might get to be running beside on a treadmill.

It is the one-on-one opportunity of masterminding over a meal (or at the bar – more on that later) that will be the best use of your time during Family Reunion. Find the times to connect with people even though there are thousands running back and forth. The training at the event will be some of the best you have ever experienced and the culture will be breathtaking. Take all of that in, and make the most of the time!

Tip #3 – Plan for these meetings in advance! Who is it that you would love to get some time with a Family Reunion? Reach out to them NOW and tell them that you would like to meet and schedule a meeting over breakfast, lunch, dinner or drinks. Hurry because calendars are filling already. 

 

Do not show up at Keller Williams Family Reunion thinking you have the answer. Go with an open mind to hear what others are sharing. Many of the attendees will walk away with their pages of notes saying things like “that would never work in my town” are the ones that should have let someone else have their ticket. The ones that walk out knowing the ONE thing that they are going to implement are the ones that will succeed. Open your mind and be ready to learn from those that are already making it happen.

Gary Keller and Jay Papasan remind us in The ONE Thing, if you chase two rabbits, you will not catch either one. Take time at the end of the day, or any break you have, to look over your notes and choose THE ONE that jumps out at you. It can be overwhelming with all of the notes you will take and not knowing where to start. Usually this means you stay at the starting line and do nothing. When you leave Las Vegas (hopefully not like Nicholas Cage did) make sure you leave with a plan and focus!

 

Family Reunion Exhibit Hall

This is one of my favorite parts of the event, the vendor madness. As soon as you get to the exhibit hall (and do this as early in the event as possible) do the quick trick or treat walk. What is the trick or treat walk? That is when you zip up and down the aisles to each booth and grab whatever they are giving away (anything from pens to magnets to candy) and make sure you grab their information handouts. Just like on Halloween you always remember the house with the big candy bar.

Tip #4 – Even though the vendors might not like hearing this (I didn’t when I was a vendor) do NOT bring your debit card to the vendor hall with you on your first visit. Do NOT let impulse shopping make choices for you. 

Decide what your budget is for new services, software, marketing, and other items at the show BEFORE you get the convention center and have a plan as to what you are looking to take home with you. When you are back in your room with the marketing materials make notes on which vendors you want to return and visit later. None of the vendors will run out of what they are selling on the first day. The best times to meet with vendors are early in the morning, or where there isn’t a breakout session that you click with. Don’t forget to say hello to the companies you’re already using!

  • Do you need KW branded clothing? Leave room in your suitcase
  • Do you want some great reading? Hit the KW bookstore
  • Do you want to develop a relationship with a new preferred vendor? Find some time to talk.

Realtors are all looking for the new magic bullet. Listen to the experts speaking on panels and in breakout sessions and you will recognize that there are no magic bullets. The message that they are all telling you is work, work, work. Keep that in mind as you shop, shop, shop. Find things that work and generate more business for you… those are the things to invest in on the exhibit floor.

Always remember the lesson of Lead with Revenue. Leave your credit card at home, and bring your debit card instead! If you don’t have it, you can’t spend it!

 Tip #5– Make sure you are listening to #KWFR on Twitter and Facebook and Instagram to share in the AHA’s

 

Group Sessions

You do not want to miss the large sessions offered at Family Reunion. You will notice that nothing competes with these on the agenda. We are talking about:
Monday

Opening Ceremonies 1:00pm-1: 30pm

Gary Keller’s Keynote Session 1:30pm-4: 30pm
Tuesday

Vision Speech             9:30am-11:00am (PowerPoint slides are usually available after the event so please stop using your iPad to take photos)

Red Bash                     4:30pm-8:00pm
Wednesday

State of Your Company              9:30am-11:00am
Thursday
The Inspirational Brunch 9:00am-10: 30am (more below)
During these large sessions, plan in advance where your group is going to meet. This is the time to catch up with the people you came to the event with. Otherwise, spend time with people you only see at national events!

 

When Sessions Are Out

Family Reunion is a 24-hour a day opportunity and Las Vegas is a 24-hour town! Just because you are not in a breakout session doesn’t mean there isn’t a great opportunity to learn. Some of the best ideas are shared in hotel lobbies, certain bars and even poolside. Check out the different hotel lobbies and see which one becomes “the” place to be.

Remember that while you are out, anything that happens at #KWFR probably ends up on Facebook before the night is over! Be smart and be safe.

 

Lunch Break

According to the online agenda it looks like the lunch break is back.
If there is a lunchroom, don’t sit with the people you can have lunch with when you get home, sit with new people! Meet people and create relationships. Share AHA’s with each other.
If there is no lunchroom then grab a lunch, find someone else eating and start up a conversation. Remember your job, as a Realtor is to meet people and create relationships.

On Wednesday, bring your own lunch and watch for more information on my unofficial mastermind (more on that below.)

 

Inspirational Brunch

This part of Family Reunion deserves its own section. There are too many agents that decide to leave town the night before to save money. To those that leave, you are missing one of the key things that makes Keller Williams the company it is. During brunch on the last day, Mo Anderson shares with everyone unbelievable true stories. You will hear tales of hardship, loss, and disaster and all of it will end with someone overcoming a challenge in a way that makes you want to change the world. Get there early as seats fill. Take this last chance to share a special moment with someone you don’t know, as you will be able to relive the stories with your traveling partners when you get back home.

Tip #6 – If this is your first Inspirational Brunch, bring Kleenex with you.

 

A Few More Tips

One of the things that Keller Williams promotes is sharing and Family Reunion is no different. Use the power of Social Media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and other sites) and as mentioned in TIP #5 remember the hashtag #KWFR. Share with each other, find each other and share with those that were unable to join the event in person.

Make the most of this event by setting goals for Keller Williams Family Reunion

  • What do you want to learn about?
  • Who are you hoping to meet and get a moment to talk with?
  • What do you need to find out about in the exhibit hall and what should you avoid spending money on?

Bring business cards, hand out business cards and remember the lesson that Gary Keller has been teaching us since Keller Williams began…it isn’t about handing out your business card, it is all about collecting business cards to add to your database! Of course you will also want to have business cards so that you can enter all of the various drawings on the exhibit floor.

Do something to be remembered. This does not mean do something crazy like run through the convention center on fire or anything. This means don’t just give your cards to people, make sure they remember you. What are you known for or what will you be remembered for? People will stop me just to know what socks I am wearing. Some people will have a giveaway that gets remembered. Kevin Kauffman and Fred Weaver are known for wearing their flip-flops everywhere. Ben Kinney can be spotted from across the exhibit hall in his REI gear. What is it that YOU will be remembered for?

 

70 Hours is Not a Lot of Time

Before you know it all of these hours will have come and gone. What will you have to show for it?

  • Notes you will use or notes you took so you could show someone you took notes?
  • A hangover because you thought you would skip the early sessions and you could stay out later?
  • A stack of business cards you collected that you will do nothing with? Or worse that you will put in your database for no real reason?

OR will you use your 70 hours to:

  • Develop a referral network
  • Focus on the ONE (ok maybe two) things that you WILL implement into your business
  • Meet new people and learn why this isn’t just a convention, it is a FAMILY REUNION

 

Looking for me at #KWFR?

If you are looking to find me at Keller Williams Family Reunion 2017 good luck! I will not be hosting any breakout sessions or on any panels. I will be hosting an unofficial mastermind on Wednesday February 15th during the lunch break somewhere…watch for my posting about it if you want to join us!

 

 

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We know that you’ve got some veteran conference tips, too, so please be sure to add your advice in the comments in below for Keller Williams agents who have never attended Family Reunion

I can’t wait to see you all at Keller Williams Family Reunion 2017 and hope you will come find me to say hello! If not, I will see you online!

 

 

Here We Go Again

Doesn’t it feel like just yesterday we were saying it was too hot as the summer beat down on us? Maybe it was a week ago that we were excited to see the flowers blooming as Spring started? It couldn’t have been that long ago that we just celebrated the new year and yet here it is again. Before we know it, this new year ahead of us will have come and gone.

What can we do differently this time to make the next year even better than this one? Review it!

Review Most of the time we just press forward thinking that we can and should do the same things we have been doing and this time just do them better. That is rarely the case. If you could just do those things better wouldn’t you have already done that?

Before this year comes to an end go take an hour, a morning, a day and review this past year. Ask yourself some tough questions about the year.

Where did you spend your time?
Were you in your office space or were you elsewhere? Were you on Facebook or other websites too often? Were you with clients enough?
If you can figure out where you were, you can figure out where you should and shouldn’t be in the new year!

What did you do that worked and what did you do that did not work?
There were some events you hosted or attended that did great. There were some that in review were a clear waste of your time. There were some weeks that were extra successful and some weeks that you should have just stayed in bed.
What made these events work or these weeks so great? What was it that made you wish you could run and hide?

Who did you spend your time with and who should you have spent your time with?
Jim Rohn taught us that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Who was that for you this year? Did you choose wisely? Who do you wish you had spent more time with so you could grow into the person you want to be?

They tell us that history is doomed to repeat itself. The same is true for us as well because we are doomed to repeat ourselves unless we learn the lessons and make the changes that allow us to breakthrough and grow!

Take the time to review your year and learn from it. You deserve it!

 

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From decorations in the stores to the red cups at Starbucks and everything pumpkin spiced, we know that holiday season is here. The holidays bring so many emotions from joy to happiness to a childlike glee and yes, sadly to stress.

What brings the stress the most? The financial commitment that the holidays can become. From travel to gifts to donations to more gifts to tables full of food and to even more gifts it is easy to turn a wonderful time into one that brings worry.

We have been hearing the lesson of LEAD WITH REVENUE for years in the business world and it should also apply to our personal world!

With many of us putting together our annual budget for next year it is time to stop and think about all of those business expenses that we do not need to have. Time to stop and think about where we are going to put our money next year. Then, making sure we have the income to exceed the expenses so we end the year with profit!

Lead with revenue is not just a business concept and we can use this powerful lesson to make the most of our personal life as well.
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Here is what we have learned to do. We have a jar that we fill following a schedule all year-long. On week 1 we put $1 in the jar. On week 2 we put $2 in the jar, and so on and so on. On week 36 we put $36 in the jar and by now we are sure you have figured the pattern. By the end of the year you will end up with $1378 in the jar. We add a little extra by emptying our pockets of coins into the jar and by the end of the year are in the area of $1500. Now, we take that money, divide it up and have our holiday budget to shop for friends, family, charity and ourselves. No stress, no credit card bills and nobody attempting to out shop anyone else.

This same pattern can be used in your business world as well as you add money to an account once a week or with every check you receive. Build up this account with a target to pay for needed training or a tool you need to add to the business or coaching for  yourself and then you too can lead with revenue and not with hope and stress!

Here’s to a happy holiday season and to a revenue filled year for each of you!

 

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Lessons of the Season

It’s my favorite time of the year! There are so many lessons to be harvested during the month of October. Here are 3 of my favorite lessons, 2 from the world of sports and one from your own kids.

1)Baseball playoffs are happening! The teams that are still battling it out remind us that you have to FINISH STRONG and no matter what challenge is in front of you, find a solution. It doesn’t matter if it is the middle of the game, bring in your best pitcher if it gives you the best chance to win! It is win or go home time!
What can you do to FINISH STRONG as the activities you do today lead to results at the end of the year? What challenge is in front of you and how can you solve that challenge? What must you do that you have never done before?

2)Football is one-third of the way into their season and some teams got off to a slow start and haven’t let that slow them. Some got off to a fast start and rested on their success a little too much. Some teams are looking ahead and remembering there is still time to make changes. A vision is what gives the team a target, internal motivation (also know was a Big Why) keeps them moving forward and coaching makes them better week after week!
What is your Vision? Is it big enough to give you something to move towards?
When was the last time you thought about why you were doing what you do? Do you have a BIG WHY powering you to get there?
Who is coaching you and helping lead you to the next level week after week?

3)This month our kids teach us the power and ease of lead generation. That’s right, our kids. We let them dress up in crazy costumes, we hand them a plastic pumpkin or a pillow case and we send them out into the world to knock on doors, walk through malls into each store and no matter where they are they have to talk to strangers! They might be saying “trick or treat” and receiving a piece of candy for their efforts.
Who are you talking to and asking your own version of “trick or treat?”

The year is far from over and there is plenty of time to FINISH STRONG, recast a VISION and earn the TREATS that come from your chosen form of lead generation!

Happy Autumn!

 

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